SPIRITUAL EFFECTS OF SEX

We all know the simple definition of sex, but sex is far beyond having fun or making love to our partners. Sex is the exchange of spirits between man and woman. Although medically sex is very good and it’s an exercise when you have only one partner. But sex gets its spiritual effects, you can just be infected with sexually transmitted diseases, you can’t also contact SPIRITUAL TRANSMITTED DISEASES. 

I know this is a matter that draws lots of attention among people in all walks of life. 

Marital sex is no longer celebrated as only a few remain faithful to it. Singles are so exposed to premarital sex while married people tries as much as they can to prevent extramarital sex, although some people sees nothing wrong in both. Sex is an act of worship between two people.

 I don’t mean worship in the temple, church or mosque but an act of honour which involves two people adoring their bodies for pleasure and satisfaction. Those who are sexually inactive are looking forward to having this thing called sex because of its awesome experience. The married are sometimes complaining of its inadequacies or its excess; whereas those who are exposed to it still crave for more. 

 To what purpose does it serve? Does it have any effect using it against its purpose? 

And why the craze about it that makes some men want it badly and some women too can’t stand a relationship without it? God created man and I’m sure he created sex for a man to enjoy pleasure with the wife of his youth, procreate and to avoid fornication among unmarried singles and adultery among married couples. However, the devil perverted God’s purpose for creating it hereby making men see the pleasure in it other than its consequences. 

After thinking about sex and the crazy about it, I came to a conclusion about two important things they are all about: 

1. The pleasure Sex (lovemaking) is pleasurable, In fact, it’s an act that makes a man enjoy oneness with his partner, body, soul and spirit. 

Two beautiful things about sex are that it’s an art (to learn) and an act. To enjoy the pleasure to its peak is to learn how to do it well. No doubt that many watch several porn and nude videos in other to know how best it’s done. It has several positions and techniques to make you enjoy the pleasures of sex. It’s because of this pleasure that people go from one partner to another so as to gather experience and skills. Don’t be a specimen! It takes two to mingle. 

As an act, it takes two people ideally to be involved in a sexual intercourse. Whether they’re married or not, godly or ungodly; once they agree to indulge in it, it can be committed. However, sex is best enjoyed when it’s done between two people of the opposite sex who are truly in love, not lust. Do it with the right person! 

Many people call it ‘food’ because you can’t be satisfied after one encounter once you’ve been exposed to it. No wonder the tendency to become an Oliver Twist is much when you’re exposed to it at an early stage of your life. Moreover, the tendency to desire sex is at its peak when you’re exposed and at puberty. This is why abstinence or celibacy must be embraced for singles because there’s more to the pleasure you derive from it. 

2. The pain 

“Hey, don’t tell me crap! How can pleasure (sex) lead to pain?” What’s pain in what two of us will enjoy? That’s the voice of the devil, don’t listen to it! In the real sense, God did not intend pain or daring consequences to come along with sex.

 What God created was marital sex, that is, sex between two married people as husband and wife. But why do we have the ‘Pre’ and ‘Extra’ that comes with marital sex? Was it in God’s plan to create that? Everything God created was perfectly good. It was the devil that distorted (perversion) God’s creation and the things He made. God wants the man to enjoy marital sex that doesn’t lead to pain but the devil wants people to pleasurably enjoy premarital and extramarital sex. All of these comes with its consequences. What are the pains that come with sex when it’s done ‘illegally?’ 

Nobody would want to suffer soul ties, loss of virginity and virtues, sexually transmitted diseases, abortion, guilt, condemnation, unwanted pregnancy, shame, unprepared parenthood, spiritually transmitted diseases (only few would know this), death, in some cases and separation from God. You cannot escape any of these consequences when you indulge in premarital or extramarital sex. Condom or medical treatment may prevent some consequences but cannot undo the greater harm that would have been done to your life. Remember I told you sex involves the spirit, soul and the body. 

It’s either you wait and enjoy the pleasure without pain or you rush into having the pleasure that comes with pain. There’s nothing special about sex when it’s done according to God’s plan. But if you desire it the other way round, be sure to bear the pain that comes with it.

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